My current job involves looking at blogs.
So I am constantly browsing through blogs all day for at least 5 hours a day.
I come across amazing blogs.
Blogs that revolve around photos, their lives, their friends...ooh ooh and food.
But recently I've been looking through Singapore bloggers.
There are a lot of them.
And the one pet peeve that really hits me is that almost 60% of the female bloggers that I come across are married. Young. And have at least two children before the age of 25.
I have nothing against marriage...and I have nothing against birthing young
BUT getting married before you've even reached maturity?! *to me, the age of REACHING maturity is 21. But you're only mentally mature at around 25/26*
THAT'S RIDICULOUS!!!
You have no idea what you want in life.
You have no idea if this is the person that you're going to be 5 years down the line *granted, you might never really know*
You have no idea if YOUR PARTNER is going to be the same person 5 years down the line.
Why the hell are you getting married so young and producing mini-me's before the age of 25??
I mean, the only logical reason would be because you think you won't be alive past the age of 55!
That gives you 30 years to watch your kids grow up, get married at 20 too, have kids before they're 25 and watch your grandkids turn into tumble tots!
SERIOUSLY!!
Why take such a big risk such as getting married so young and then having kids and then putting them through the pain of divorce when you suddenly realise that your spouse ISN'T the one you want to spend your time with??
People these day's ask why the divorce rate is so high.
There's your answer.
Getting married at an age where you haven't developed yourself as a person is just LUDICROUS!
*God, I just needed to vent.*
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